When it comes to friendship, there is a prevailing myth that three is a crowd – an assumption that with three, two will team up and overpower one. That’s not a biblical message. In fact, we should actually encourage our kids to seek out groups of three.
The Bible says a threefold cord is not quickly broken. So the idea that three is a crowd an anti-biblical message. We need to understand that every idea is either a Christ message or an anti-Christ message – anointed or not anointed. God said we are either for Him or against Him. There is no in between.
When it comes to groups of three, think of it this way: God is a triune being. We are created in His image as a body, a soul, and a spirit. Three is not a crowd. In fact, there is protection and accountability in three. Even if two have a wrong idea, the third may disagree and bring discussion before a bad choice is made. We have seen first hand, in the lives of our own children, that three kids who are living for God are more powerful (and have more fun – in case that counts!) than two.